In this modern age of digital media and social networking, people who are pursuing their authentic life journey are rare because there are multiple social media platforms where millions of people present their daily routines as an ideal way of living.
They may seem happy and satisfying on screen, but behind those lights and cameras, they are a completely different type of human. Also, they are juggling between their false and true selves on and off camera to please people who don't even know them.
It might be harsh, but it's the bitter reality of our modern society, which is one of the biggest reasons that prevents you from embracing your true self and living on your own terms.
So, this blog will help you to break free from the chains of people-pleasing attitudes and start an authentic life journey.
What Does It Mean To Be Authentic?
In the words of a well-known Canadian author, Lance Secretan, authenticity in life is defined as;
"Authenticity is the alignment of head, mouth, heart, and feetthinking, saying, feeling, and doing the same thingconsistently. This builds trust, and followers love leaders they can trust."
Authenticity simply means trustworthiness, self-awareness, realness, and not being fake. It is the ability to be true to oneself, live a life that perfectly aligns with one's core values, and express one's thoughts and ideas without hesitation.
It means living according to your moral code instead of trying to be someone you are and conforming to societal expectations and social norms.
Living an authentic life has many incredible perks like:
When you live authentically, you accept every aspect of yourself, even if it is your flaws, weaknesses, fears, strengths, or capabilities.
How To Be Authentic | 4 Life-Saving Tips & Tricks
The first step to starting your authentic life journey is determining who you are. To do this, you must ask yourself a few questions. If you answer them, then you are all set to embrace your true self.
So, here are the questions:
- What makes you feel happy and energetic?
- Where do you spend most of your time?
- How do you spend most of your money?
- What are the certain things that you like to discuss with your family and friends?
Before asking yourself these questions, you may believe that you are living the life of your dreams, and just after getting the answers, you realize that you want something different from your life, or you may not feel fulfilled and satisfied.
So, it's a red sign you are not living an authentic life.
Now, let's start your journey with these authentic living tips.
Meditate & Define Your Purpose
Meditation is a secret tool that helps you to live an authentic life as it allows you to cut through distractions and enhances your ability to concentrate and focus.
It is a space where you can find clarity, creativity, and, ultimately, a spacious headspace where you can determine your goals and ambitions.
It allows you to dive deep into the depths of your minds and souls to explore your ideas, dreams, and ambitions that may have otherwise been neglected in the world's noise.
Once you know your purpose, the rest becomes easy for you.
Confidently Speak Your Mind
When you know your purpose, goals, and ambitions, you feel an inner drive that propels you to walk a path that leads to the accomplishment of your dreams.
Once you are willing to walk your path, you become confident enough to stand your ground and speak your mind. Because when you are comfortable in your own skin, you do not think about external opinions.
So, be limitless in your pursuits, and do not be afraid to speak about your ideas, even if they do not align with social norms.
Learn to Say NO & Set Boundaries
Say No to things that do not align with your core values and set clear boundaries as a way of self-preservation. It is not to say that you become inflexible.
Being adaptable is good, but when it comes to your moral values and code of life, be clear and straightforward.
Do not hesitate to say NO when necessary, and do not let anyone enter your personal space without your permission.
The only way to do this is to make a clear statement about your value from the very start so everyone knows their limit.
Do Not Be a People Pleaser
As the great Oscar Wilde once said, "Be yourself; everyone else is already taken."
Do not try to be someone you are, not just to please people around you. When you become a people pleaser, it automatically removes authenticity from your character.
You become a puppeteer of someone else's string. You end up doing everything that others want you to do, which is a direct assault on your core values.
Therefore, be true to yourself and always prioritize your desires. Remember, others respect you only when you respect yourself.
Wrap Up
In life, we are often forced to be someone we are not and put on a mask of someone entirely opposite to our true selves for the sake of conformity and to impress our superiors, friends, family, and people around us.
Intentionally or unintentionally, we create a false image of ourselves that eventually diminishes our authentic lives. But remember, there is always a choice. So, be wise and embrace your true selves.
Hope you find this article helpful in finding your authentic, fulfilling, and beautiful journey!
